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2013年1月26日

Important Lessons in Life

在网路上看到这样一则人生经验分享。据说,是由一位90高龄的婆婆写的。这不是我第一次看到这篇文章。我相信老婆婆现在也已经是90几岁了。每一次我在不同的时间重看这篇life lessons的时候,总发觉自己是越看越赞同老婆婆所写的东西。

或许,老了,更贴近老婆婆的生活体悟,所以明了。

只是明白、体悟是一回事。了解易,行难。那可是我们一生的体验与修行啊!

仅此跟大家分享老婆婆浓缩的这篇『人生42章经』。

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 生活是不公平的,但它还是美好的。我赞同。
 
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. T-Harv Eker曾说过,不管你有多少犹豫多好,请带着犹豫去行动,也总好过坐在家里继续犹豫。
 
3. Life is too short – enjoy it. 生命不止短暂,而且还无法被预计。
 
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will. 在你最危难的时候,你才知道谁是真正在意你、爱你、愿意保护你的人。
 
5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 这个我会永记在心。很重要。。。
 
6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself. 这两个月下来,我觉得我很清楚明白这句话的含义。嘴上赢得了又如何?况且你一般上无法改变已然根深蒂固的想法。何不忠于自己的想法,专注在手上的工作,而不是花时间在口头上的争执。
 
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 那天在Money & You课室时,Francies与小璇说的,不要把情绪藏在心中。要释放就释放出来。嗯,只是我已经习惯一个人的哭泣。
 
8. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check. 别觉得退休离你很遥远。年轻是本钱。可惜光阴似箭,现在『本钱』很快就没了。
 
9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 嗯,这个嘛,我还好啦!到底她想带出什么意思?
 
10. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 放下过去,就是放自己一条生路。
 
11. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 我还没有孩子。。。。
 
12. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 我想长大好多年以后,我才真正了解这句话的意思。有些朋友或许和我一样,觉得自己其实在走着自己的道路。但同一时间,我们其实也拥有一个自己学习的榜样,而暗地里希望自己的人生可以和那个学习的偶像一样。殊不知其实,我们都应该走自己的路。
 
13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
 
14 Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 呼。。。。。。吸。。。
 
15. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
 
16. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 免疫系统的道理就是这样子咯。
 
17. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else. 这个东西听下去很容易。你要做的话就。。。慢慢修行吧!
 
18. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 是啊,乔布斯说,无论怎样,都要把你喜欢的那件事情找出来。如果还找不到,慢慢找。一直到你把它找出来为止。
 
19. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 
 
20. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

21. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
 
22. The most important sex organ is the brain.
 
23. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. (跟第17一点一样)
 
24. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?' 这的确是很好的破解担忧的方式。五年后有些东西只剩下回忆,而不再重要。我想我知道我该做什么。。。
 
25. Always choose life.
 
26. Forgive but don’t forget.
 
27. What other people think of you is none of your business. 对啊!我的梦想干你屁事!
 
28. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 我不太晓得这句话的真实性。但针对一些你真的没法现在就放下的事情,除了给时间一点时间,你真的别胡选择。
 
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 告诉自己,任何事情都会过去的。
 
30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 有时我会对我在意的事情过度的认真。而我也知道每当进入这样的状态的时候,我都是screw up things的。也唯有放松,才能释放自如。
 
31. Believe in miracles. 每天高唱I believe i can fly!
 
32. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
 
33. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 说得很对啊!
 
34. Your children get only one childhood. 我感谢我爸爸妈妈叔叔姑姑公公婆婆姐姐哥哥弟弟妹妹,给了我一个自由自在的童年。
 
35. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 最终最重要的事情是,你曾经爱过。是否有结果,那真的不太重要了。
 
36. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 奇迹这事情其实像treaasure hunt这样子,需要你出外不断的寻找。一直到你找到可以找到它的clues以后,你就找到奇迹了。但这也唯有不放弃的人会找得到。
 
37. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
 
38. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have not what you need. 临河而慕鱼,不如归家结网。
 
39. The best is yet to come...
 
40. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 别让不好的情绪糟蹋自己的每一天。不过就算中马票也好,记得需要life goes on。
 
41. Yield. 我其实不太了解这句。
 
42. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. 其实我们本来就无一物。所有积蓄降临我们身上的,都是福分,都是礼物。且行且珍惜。



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