That day, afternoon tea with friends. We ordered a muffin plus drinks, waited for 20 minutes but has not come yet. My friend decided to ask what had happened. Her face is natural does not look good, snappily asked the waiter, her package to the end when we can. The waiter said muffins to bake, have to wait 10 minutes!
Friends micro anger: "mean, just 20 minutes have not baked? Powder still playing?"
The waiter kept saying sorry, back to the kitchen to go after him. The friend angrily looked out the window. The next 10 minutes, the waiter come and go in our table, actually are not sent to table dish! My friends crazy, prepare and then "remind" the waiter, I volunteered to help her into the kitchen. Waitress helpless face said: "already baked, but also five minutes!"
Friends really fire, do not give the store the opportunity still angrily off in a huff best mobile accessories.
The my heart Yitan this matter, we give vent to their dissatisfaction, the store has also been punished. But in the end who is truly punished?
Or we ah! Stores continue to do business, we take an afternoon so destroyed, to ruin a good time for a belated half-hour muffins, worth it? Finally, we fight for what?
Many of my personal impression, do not like to express their views in the discussion, do not like to reveal the emotional, always to smile, as if nothing were OK, the equivalent of "Mr. Nice Guy".
Get paid for. Just employment, it was such a suggestion, Hey, you're a Stanford graduate, have confidence in ah! Interview, how demanding salary, what kind of treatment, The best mobile accessory and the other person that you valuable. Did not give to this salary, you fight or walk away! But, I am always in this regard will not be too insist, I will own all expression, then companies such as reply, my fitness is not suitable for the job.
In the office, I also seemed to belong to a a more obedient kind of person. I usually always nodded when I open mouth asking the question to ask is, "in the end how to do". Unless the boss asked me to think what to do, I will take the initiative to put forward. So some of my colleagues said: "Do you not like coming back from abroad! Abroad-how could this be? Abroad are not all efforts to speak, fight for you?" They are such a person called "sharp", smart and ideas.